Food Culture, an interview

I found this gem in my draft folder. I can’t remember why I never posted it. As we approach the one year mark of Covid 19, reading this, even though it was only a year and a half ago brought me a wave of nostalgia. So much has changed, there’s been so much loss. Way too much. I thought 2020 was going to be the year I started on a community compost project and planned to partner with schools to get Tower Gardens. Well, the pandemic had other plans, and like a lot of people my mental health has suffered. Loss is real, depression is real, anxiety is real. All of which can be debilitating at times. I’m grateful that I’ve made it though the last year.

Anyway, please enjoy this “little piece of nostalgia”,

October 2019:

Last month my daughter interviewed me for a school assignment. (Which was super fun) It really made me think about my “food culture” and what’s important to me. Here’s the interview, I later added a couple of stories….

What’s the most important part of your food culture?

Healthy eating has always been important to me. I really wanted to raise my kids vegetarian but my husband was a meat eater when we met. I quit eating meat when I was 15. Over the years he changed his view on thinking you couldn’t get enough protein without meat, thankfully now we have a mostly vegan household. 

How has your relationship with food changed, having grown up in the most highly processed food decades (70s and 80s)?

Both sets of my grandparents had gardens in the 70’s and my dad started juicing and shopping at health food stores, so I don’t think I was affected until I went to live with my mom. I remember the natural foods store in Mammoth, I got to have carob chips & banana chips for treats. My dad let me have mandarin lime soda and Have’a corn chips, while the other kids were eating twinkies and cokes. I remember wanting ‘Corn Pops’ cereal so badly, that I threw a temper tantrum in the middle of the grocery store. His compromise was puffed rice central with pure maple syrup and fresh raw goats milk. To a six year old that was “cruel and unusual punishment”. Haha!

Once I went to live with my mom things were quite different, especially after she got our first microwave. She still made a lot of things from scratch (for a while), we canned fruit & jam and she baked bread. But my mom started buying Lean Cuisines and other frozen stuff and a lot of processed foods. I remember Otter Pops being one of my favorite treats in the summer, I also loved canned frosting. Now I’d never let that stuff in my house. All the Artificial colors, flavors and preservatives.....  When my kids were little, it was a lot easier to make sure they were eating healthy but snack & lunch at school changed that some. They wanted “the good snacks” like everyone else had....they didn’t want to be the weird kid. So I started buying chips, fruit snacks and packaged drinks. Again, something I’d never do now. (I was right to begin with and now research supports it!)

Why did you want to start growing your own food?

I remember picking veggies from my grandparents gardens, and having fruit right off the tree and I wanted my kids to experience that too. I planted my first garden when I pregnant with my son back in 1996, it was fun but also a lot of work with a newborn so it’s not something that I kept up on. I did manage to plant a garden at most of the houses we’ve lived in even if they were very small, sometimes only tomatoes and zucchini. I liked the idea of having the kids help, I thought it would be fun and they’d be more likely to eat what they grew. We’ve also had fruit trees at a couple of our houses, we made jam from plums, lots of lemonade from our lemons. One year we had so many peaches that we froze them and used them for peach cobbler, peach salsa, peach smoothies. We also had tons of figs, I tried making fig bars and fig jam. After my kids all left the house, I needed another project, and love spending hours in my garden everyday now.

Some holiday tips to reduce waste

If you’re trying to reduce your waste, holiday shopping can be a challenge. You don’t want to buy someone one more thing they absolutely don’t need but you still want to get them something. And then there’s the wrapping and cards Oy vey! Every year about 540,000 tons of wrapping paper is thrown out and ends up in landfills. So. Much. Waste.

I’ll share with you a few things I’ve done this past year. For Valentine’s Day I sent my kid’s Chipotle gift cards, but instead of mailing them a card with a gift card in it, I sent them e-gift cards with a note saying I love you, here’s lunch on me. Most sites that offer e-gift cards have a place for a personal message. For our anniversary instead of gifts we went out for breakfast and went whale watching. We’d never been and it was a beautiful day out on the water. Of course there’s good old cash, I forgot to get (or make) my niece a graduation card so I used Zelle through my bank and transferred her gift right there at the dinner table. Easy peasy.

Our daily choices can make a huge impact, it may not feel like much but trust me it matters. Here are some other ideas:

• Support small businesses, there’s lots of cool hand made things at the local farmers markets and usually they don’t have packaging. Think soaps, lip balms, bath bombs etc. Buying things at local businesses cuts down on transportation pollution.

• Get your coffee or tea loving friend or family member a reusable coffee cup and an e gift card to their favorite coffee place (preferably a small business).

• Give the gift of quality time, especially to your aging grandparents and parents. Take them for lunch, dinner, a movie, a pedicure. Go to a concert, bake cookies, watch a football game. Whatever it is actually doesn’t matter much, they just want your time. They get lonely and need to know that they’re still important amidst our busy lives.

• Shop secondhand. I have found some incredible deals at thrift stores, like $200+ premium denim jeans for $15!!! And I LOVE Poshmark, I have found amazing things with the tags still on for less than half of the retail price..

• As for wrapping, use unexpected things like old paper shopping bags, news paper, cloth scraps, magazine pages. Bulk food, grocery bags or pillow cases work they and serve a dual purpose. Bows made from fabric or twine. Pine cones, cinnamon sticks, dried citrus fruit are all cute and compostable. Or you can use stuff that’s been in your Christmas box for years like I am.

Zero waste, imperfectly is still moving towards zero waste

I’ve had this site now for over a year and yet I have posted only a handful of times. The biggest reason for that is that I’ve been somewhat intimidated, mostly in regard to the zero waste category. It doesn’t matter that I’m not doing zero waste 100% perfectly. I follow Anne-Marie Bonneau on Instagram, her profile name is zerowastechef, she posted “we don’t need a handful of people doing zero waste perfectly…we need millions of people doing zero waste imperfectly”. Which is the absolute truth.

Overwhelmed? No biggie, start with reusable grocery bags, produce/bulk bags, some jars and a reusable water bottle. Try looking at thrift stores for mason jars instead of buying some. I got my most recent glass water bottle at a thrift store for only $3.00.

Having meatless meals is another way to lower your carbon footprint. Too difficult? Try just one a week, need some ideas, search for #meatlessmondays. Small sustainable changes are the key, we can all do zero waste, imperfectly.

What is zero waste?

Miriam Webster defines zero waste as:

generating little or no waste  

zero waste

 noun

• The creative waste management strategy of "zero waste" is a combination of community and industrial responsibility that includes deconstruction in spite of demolition, composting to keep odorous organic waste out of landfills, recycling, and a screening facility to allow more separation and reuse of waste rather than incineration. —Aimee Dolloff

We were first introduced to the zero waste idea back in 2014 when I was watching a segment on Raechal Ray with Lauren Singer. Lauren writes a blog called Trash is for Tossers, she also opened a package free shop. Our daughter took off with the idea and did a bunch of research, which led her to the book Zero Waste Home by Bea Johnson, which was Lauren Singer’s inspiration. 

We’ve always sort of recycled, at least the obvious stuff. I haven’t reused as much as I could because when I was a kid my nana’s house was cluttered (think hoarders!) with different food containers she’d cleaned and saved and it drove me nuts. 

What we’ve come to learn is not as many things are recyclable as you’d think, including the packages that have the symbol on them. That is mostly to tell you which kind of plastic it is....very confusing. 

As a household that eats plant based, it’s a little more difficult to go completely package free. For example I can’t buy vegan cheese at the deli and put it in my own container (a least not yet!) but for me that’s a trade off I’m willing to make. We have vastly reduced our trash, we compost and have a garden so at least in my mind we’re doing pretty well.

Now what does all this have to do with you? And what are small steps you can take? 

We’ve all heard “reduce, recycle, reuse” well it’s actually now “refuse, reduce, reuse”. You’ve probably heard about the ban on plastic straws, even before that actually goes into effect, you can simply say you don’t need straws at a restaurant. You can bring your reusable coffe cup for your morning java, a lot of places will give you a small discount for it. In California we’re charged 10 cents for a bag at the grocery store so most of us bring our own, well what about the produce and bulk bags? Some stores sell packs of reusable bags, or they are available online. 

I know it’s a lot! But one thing, one step, one bite at a time. Chunk things down to something that’s manageable for you.